I hope one day you wake up not bearing that heavy feeling anymore.
in the back of the club arms folded cause i don’t agree with the music selection
on purpose!!! love people on purpose!!! find someone wonderful and love them and tell them it wasn’t an accident, you had a choice, you saw who they were and realized how lovely it would be to love them, and it is!!! i made a good decision! i love you on purpose!!!
There’s an alternate reality where today would be your wedding day if you didn’t break up with your ex or you went to your second choice school. There’s a life out there that you could’ve had where you live in a beach town or you married your high school sweetheart or you’re a professional horse rider. The point is, there are so many different directions our lives could have gone, depending on where our parents decided to raise us or what school we went to or what sport we signed up for in second grade. So it makes absolutely no sense for us to get upset about things that could’ve happened but didn’t or people we lost, because literally anything could’ve happened. We just don’t always realize the extent of amazing things that could’ve/ could eventually happen to us so when we get a peek into a future we want and it seems possible, we obsess when we lose it. There are tons of lives that we don’t have, we can’t possibly cry over all of them. Instead we have to appreciate the one we do have and the endless possible futures in front of us.
“10 things I learned when he left me. 1. Smoking 3 packs of cigarettes a day won’t numb the pain. 2. Your friends will do anything to distract you but the only thing you’ll be thinking about is him. 3. Checking if he’s online all the time will only remind you that he will never call again. 4. Don’t listen to music for a while because every damn song will remind you of him. 5. Kissing strangers won’t fill the hole he left in you. 6. Being drunk almost everyday won’t help you forget him. 7. Seeing him with someone else will make you wanna throw up. But you’ll turn around and act like you didn’t see him holding her hand, because it’s been almost 7 months and people expect you to be over it by now. 8. Hearing someone say his name will make you ache. 9. You’ll want to scream when you see how pretty she is. 10. Blocking his number and deleting every picture of him won’t help you forget what happened and how much you loved him.”
— 10 things I learned when he left me // 21.12.2015
(via written-on-polaroids)
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